See, I didn’t take the little dance moment from DH as a “Harmione” moment. I understood it to be a moment when Harry saw one of his best friends in pain and tried to cheer her up and let her know he was there for her. And after all, he didn’t try to be romantic — he was goofy.
Maybe I understood it that way because one of my best friends is a guy — and even though we are completely platonic and have love interests of our own, I can picture him doing the exact same kind of thing to cheer me up when I’m sad or heartbroken (in fact, I’m pretty sure he has at some point).
I just hate this idea that a man and woman can’t be close to each other without one (or both) of them having feelings for the other.